The Offer Package: What I Send With Your Contract
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A seller is handed paper from somebody whose name they have never heard and asked to take their house off the market for sixty days. What they cannot see, they treat as risk. So we do not send a bare contract. We send a package.
A contract from a stranger is a risk
Put yourself on the seller's side of the table for a moment.
You are handed a stack of paper with numbers on it, from somebody whose name you have never heard, and you are asked to take your house off the market for them for the next sixty days. If they fail, you lose the market's attention, your listing looks damaged, and you start over.
What the seller cannot see, they treat as risk. That is not paranoia, it is sensible. And it means a bare contract, however good the numbers, is competing with a handicap it did not need to carry.
So we do not send a bare contract. We send a package.
What goes in it
The contract and addenda, obviously, complete and correctly filled in, which is less universal than it should be. Then three things around it.
A short cover letter explaining the terms. Not a plea. An explanation of why the offer is built the way it is: that the settlement date was chosen to suit the sellers, that the rent-back is there because we understood they needed time, that the deposit is larger than usual because my buyers are serious. It takes a page. It turns a set of numbers into a set of decisions somebody made on purpose.
Proof the financing is real. Not a form letter. A preapproval from a lender the listing agent has heard of, with a note about how far the file has actually gone. There is a wide gulf between a buyer who filled in an online application and one whose income, assets and credit have been through underwriting, and both can produce a document with the word "approved" on it.
An invitation to call the lender directly. This one is nearly free and it is remarkable how few buyers extend it. I ask my lender in advance whether they will take a call from the other side, and then I say so in writing. Listing agents notice it every single time, because it is the opposite of what a shaky offer does.
Include everything, and let the seller decide
The principle I follow is to put in anything that might possibly matter, and let the seller judge what counts.
Do not make that call for them. I have had deals turn on things I would not have predicted: that my buyers could close in three weeks because they were renting month to month, that they were happy to buy the riding mower separately, that one of them had grown up two roads over and knew the well was drilled deep because their father had used the same driller.
None of that is strategy. It is just refusing to pre-edit your own offer down to a price and a date.
The letter I will not write
I want to be direct about this, because it is the one place where a well-meant package can cause a real problem.
I do not write buyer love letters. No family photographs, no description of how my clients pictured Christmas in the living room, nothing about their children, their church, their heritage or their circumstances.
Those letters carry genuine fair housing risk. They invite a seller — even a seller with no bad intent at all — to choose between buyers on the basis of protected characteristics, and they expose the seller and both agents to a complaint that nobody wants and nobody needs. A number of brokerages now prohibit them outright, and I think that is right.
The good news is that the thing those letters are reaching for can be achieved cleanly. You do not need a seller to feel sentimental about your buyer. You need them to feel confident. A letter about the terms and about the certainty of closing does that, and it does it without asking a seller to make a decision they are not allowed to make.
My cover letters talk about dates, financing, contingencies and the reasons behind them. They are warm in tone and entirely about the transaction. That is the line, and it is not a hard one to stay on.
How it arrives
The package matters less if it lands with a thud in an inbox and nobody knows it is there.
So I confirm delivery. Every time, in writing, and then by phone if I do not hear back. This is not fussiness. I have been the listing agent on a property where seven offers arrived with no notification at all, and one of them I did not find for three weeks because it had gone to spam. Those buyers never knew their offer was not read. They will go on believing they were outbid on price.
And where the listing agent will allow it, I ask to present in person or by video. Not every agent says yes. The ones who do are usually the ones who will also answer a question, and half an hour in a room has won my clients houses that an email would not have. More on that in how real estate negotiation has changed.
Why this is not just decoration
Everything in the package is aimed at one of the three things a seller is actually weighing, and mostly at the third one.
The money is in the contract. The calendar is in the contract. But the confidence that this will close — that is not in the contract at all, and it is frequently the deciding factor. The package is where a buyer makes their case on that axis. See what sellers really want for why that third pillar carries so much weight.
This is also the part of a competitive offer that costs a buyer the least. A better cover letter is free. A lender who answers the phone is free. Confirming that your offer arrived is free. Buyers routinely spend thousands chasing price while leaving all of that on the table.
Where buyers get stuck
Two things go wrong, and neither is about money.
The first is sending a naked contract and assuming the numbers will speak. They will not. They are competing against other numbers, and everything that would have distinguished yours was left in a drawer.
The second is overcorrecting into the personal — the photos, the story, the appeal to sentiment — which feels generous and creates a liability for everyone involved.
The target is between those. Make your buyer specific and credible without making them a protected characteristic. That is the whole craft of it, and it sits inside the complete guide to real estate negotiation in Southern Maryland.
Frequently Asked Questions
The complete contract and addenda, a short cover letter explaining why the terms are built as they are, real evidence that the financing is sound, and an invitation for the listing agent to call the lender directly.
It costs nothing and it is the opposite of what a weak offer does. Listing agents notice it, because it lets them verify the buyer rather than take a form letter on trust.
No. Buyer love letters carry real fair housing risk by inviting decisions based on protected characteristics, and many brokerages now prohibit them.
Everything about the transaction: why the settlement date was chosen, why the deposit is larger than usual, why the contingencies are structured as they are. Warm in tone, entirely about terms.
Often. Money and dates live in the contract, but confidence that the deal will close does not, and that is frequently the deciding factor.
Your agent should confirm delivery in writing every time. Offers do go missing, including into spam folders, when nobody follows up.
Let Us Build Your Offer Properly
The package is the cheapest part of a competitive offer and the part most buyers skip. Let us put yours together before you find the house.
Dawn Riley
Associate Broker, Realtor, Master Certified Negotiator
The Riley Team at Deep Roots Real Estate
410-414-2438
dawn@dawnriley.net
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